September 2008

I will step back and let Him lead the way.

September 30, 2008

I’m feeling this one tonight (lesson 155). Maybe it’s the submissive in me. J/k. For me, this passage is about listening to intuition. We are all receiving very precise instructions every day. It’s just that lots of people have too much static going on (monkey mind chatter) to hear that guidance. How peaceful and relaxing [...]

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Why It’s Important Never to Label a Guy (Best Kept Secret in the Universe)

September 29, 2008

Several people who read my post on Natural Game were very concerned for my well-being. They said “be careful, this guy is a player.” I appreciate very much that they are looking out for me. And at the same time it’s important to me to address this point because it is exactly this dynamic that [...]

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I am not a body. I am free.

September 28, 2008

Wow, it feels like so much powerful energy moving through me this week. The seduction thing, the time on RSD Nation, I’m finding it a little harder to be fully present on my walk to Starbucks because of the unresolved energy. But it’s all good, I’m learning to trust the process. Meanwhile, I’m still finding [...]

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How EFT Can Take Your Game to A Whole New Level

September 27, 2008

I met a guy last night who could use some EFT. EFT is Emotional Freedom Technique (http://www.emofree.com/). I’m at the bar and he’s a friend of a friend. We got into one of those conversations that I dread these days. He’s asking me a string of “interview” questions, like where I work, where I live, [...]

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Natural Game – How to Seduce a Celibate Girl

September 25, 2008

I’ve been posting some on RSD Nation, which is a site for guys who want to have better connections with women. Lots of great guys there. The energy feels pretty intense on the site, from a girl’s perspective. Not too surprising, with over 1000 guys on there at any given time. I posted this story [...]

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Eckhart Tolle and Egoless Sex?

September 24, 2008

This passage really spoke to me when I read it yesterday, and it gives me hope that the perspectives expressed in my blog and by my commentators can be integrated: “When you are no longer totally identified with forms, consciousness — who you are — becomes freed from its imprisonment in form. This freedom is [...]

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A Course in Miracles

September 22, 2008

It’s cryptic and sometimes you want to throw the fucking book against the wall because it’s so true, but it sets you free. And on the celibacy front, well, let’s just say that I’m in serious trouble. But in a very good way. This God sense of humor thing really has no limits. But then [...]

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The Spaciousness of Questions

September 21, 2008

Have any of you ever noticed how wonderful it can feel to ask a question and not rush in with an answer? The absolute joy of “not knowing.” I have really been noticing this lately with “problems” that arise. Instead of trying to rush in to “fix” the problem, I’ve been trying to hold open [...]

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We Contain Multitudes

September 21, 2008

Percolating away, and really enjoying all your comments about egoless sex. I’ve always kind of hoped it was a possibility, so I’m open to changing my mind. I like sex, always have. “Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself, I am large, I contain multitudes.” – Walt Whitman. Or: “Let the competing [...]

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Is It Possible to Have Egoless Sex?

September 19, 2008

That is the question on the table, and I am enjoying the question so much that I’m going to percolate for a while before addressing it. I welcome your comments in the meantime, to help me find some clarity about this issue. Why is having sex any different than having a nice meal or a [...]

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