October 2008

Wow, this is cool. Thanks Rori :-)

October 29, 2008

http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/should-you-have-sex/ Btw, Rori Raye and Christian Carter both offer amazing resources for women who want to have more satisfying dating lives. *************************** This one’s pretty cool, too: http://connectingandshit.blogspot.com/2008/10/on-nature-of-power.html *************************** I also wanted to share this link from Hot Alpha Female’s blog. She and I seem to be kindred spirits http://hotalphafemale.blogspot.com/2008/07/why-i-love-pick-up-artists.html

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Compassion. Bring It. Everywhere You Go.

October 29, 2008

I gotta share a moving experience I had last night at American Tuesdays, which is a weekly get-together held each time at a different bar or restaurant. Counterpart to French Tuesdays which I mentioned in my original Natural Game post. This is why I *love* nonviolent communication. Gorgeous blonde girl comes running over, she is [...]

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What Erika’s Ski Lift Experience Taught Her About Approachability

October 29, 2008

This entry applies just as much to girls as to guys. This was a wild lesson for me. I’m a delicate little girl who easily gets wind burn, so vanity be damned, when I ski (which is all winter long), I cover from head to toe. I wear a helmet, goggles, and face mask. You [...]

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Natural Game – Ferrari Guy’s Secrets Revealed

October 26, 2008

So here we have another natural whose secrets will be revealed. He showed up out of the blue and took me out last night. I asked him if it was ok to call him “Ferrari Guy” on my blog, and he said no problem, so here goes: I met Ferrari Guy (FG for short) a [...]

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Why is there no RSD Nation for Girls?

October 26, 2008

You go on that website, and guys are being empowered to live the life they want. You can see the progression, from guys just starting out (still in chode mode) to guys who are now having monumental success with women. The forum often has 1300 guys from all over the world on there. Where is [...]

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Love, Truth, and Power – the Way of the Jedi (Nimbus)

October 25, 2008

Today I feel like riffing off of Halffull’s comment. He said: “There are three tennents that any truly conscious person should work to improve: Love, Truth, and Power. I LOVE a lot of your philosophies… but one thing which has always been lacking for me is the inclusion of the principle of power. ‘Just let [...]

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I need do nothing.

October 23, 2008

This is perhaps my favorite entry in ACIM, maybe because it was the hardest for me to learn (and I’m still learning it). Doing nothing was so completely foreign to the way I lived my life. A few years ago, I was a workaholic and overachiever. I had to-do lists and goals, and I was [...]

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The Most Ridiculous Sticking Point Ever – Hmmm …

October 21, 2008

A couple of weeks ago I received an e-mail from a blog reader, a devoted Course in Miracles student and teacher, for whom I have tons of respect. The reader said: “If you want a relationship with great sex (which is a great goal), it will be given to you immediately.” Is that true? I [...]

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Heart-Melting Words

October 20, 2008

This just popped into my head. A guy in my life (we used to date and have known each other for several years now) took me out to dinner one night a few months ago, and this is what he said: “Erika, when I hear your ideas, sometimes I think you are half crazy. But [...]

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I am under no laws but God’s.

October 19, 2008

I posted over on RSD Nation how I gave up all the “rules” of dating quite some time ago. Now I follow my intuition purely, all the time. I thought of this passage again tonight from ACIM and wanted to share it, in the hopes it will inspire others to liberate themselves from all the [...]

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