November 2008

The Dalai Lama on Celibacy

November 29, 2008

My friend sent me this link. I’m not sure if he’s flirting with me or negging me? Lol, after you read it you’ll see why, since he sent it in the context of some intense flirtation and told me with a wink that it was some “spiritual guidance” for me. I probably need some famous [...]

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The Difference Between "Falling" In Love and Loving

November 28, 2008

So I’ve been spending time with this guy who says his biggest “problem” is that women fall in love with him. He goes on one or two dates with them, and suddenly they decide that he is “the One,” whatever that means to them. They project all their fantasies onto him about marriage, kids, and [...]

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ACIM and Cultivating a "No Worries" Mindset

November 24, 2008

This may be the most fundamental lesson I learned in the past few months. If someone cuts me off in traffic, does it matter? No. If someone doesn’t call me when they said they would call, does it matter? Nope. If someone doesn’t get something done on time, does it matter? Will I remember it [...]

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My Cup Runneth Over – A Riff on Chivalry and Men Being Men :-)

November 23, 2008

A few people asked me this week what motivates me to be on RSDN and help guys succeed with women. And the answer is: “because that’s what I feel called to do in my soul.” But I digress … Sometimes the simplest joy for me is having a Sunday morning all to myself where appreciation [...]

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What Keeps Me Going …

November 19, 2008

is receiving things like this text message that just came in from one of my guys: “Thanks to the Universe for having you come at exactly the right time the other night. Thank you for your sage advice. I’m looking into where to learn EFT.” Wow, that just warms my heart. So do your comments [...]

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Natural Game – Motorcycle Guy’s Secrets Revealed

November 18, 2008

Here we have another natural. This blog entry took me a little while to write because the experience really transcends words. But I want to share, so here goes … Motorcycle Guy (MG for short) is a relationship coach here in San Francisco. He’s currently married to a gorgeous woman but in a fully open [...]

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Emulating the Tollester – Eleven Signs that the Ego is Operating and What to Do About It

November 13, 2008

It seems like a large number of guys in the community are discovering the work of Eckhart Tolle (who wrote The Power of Now and Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose). What many people don’t know is that Tolle’s writings are in essence a more easily digestible version of A Course in Miracles (ACIM). Anyway, today [...]

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Photographic Interlude

November 11, 2008

Here’s another pic from Burning Man: “Would you like to go down the rabbit hole with me?”

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Another Reader Question – Using EFT to Improve Your Game

November 8, 2008

So I received another reader question, which again is a great question, this time about using Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). We really got that EFT thread going over there at RSD Nation (you can see it here: http://www.rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=31379), and lots of questions are coming up. I am so thrilled to see so many guys trying [...]

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Question from a Reader – How to Be Non-Reactive

November 8, 2008

As many of you know, I am a frequent poster on RSD Nation, which is Tyler Durden’s forum for aspiring pickup artists: www.rsdnation.com. I love posting about how the spiritual tools I talk about here can help guys be better with women. This is not spiritual mumbo jumbo. I’m a pragmatist and only recommend things [...]

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