February 2009

A Provocative Letter from a Female Reader

February 28, 2009

Hey everyone, I am continually amazed by the insightfulness and generosity of my readers here. A blog reader sent me this letter a few weeks ago, and I’ve have been meaning to respond to it on blog (with her permission) for a while. I’m still not quite ready to respond, but I re-read the letter [...]

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Deep Comfort Game V: The Beauty and Power of Vulnerability

February 28, 2009

A few posts back, one of my blog readers, Hikaru, left this comment: Erika I’m interested in your opinions on vulnerability. I recently got into an argument with one of the the instructors for a company I used to approach coach with over the topic of vulnerability. I’m curious what your take on it is. [...]

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This weekend … another bootcamp?

February 27, 2009

Looks like I may be invited to attend another bootcamp this weekend, starting with some in-field training tonight. I will let you know about any adventures and insights that are gained. Meanwhile, our Vegas and Los Angeles forays are coming up very very soon. I’ll be seeing some of my favorite guys, like Sinn, Hypnotica, [...]

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Latest happenings … and a request for your feedback about limiting beliefs

February 26, 2009

First off, a few Thursday morning musings. Yesterday felt so eerily quiet, at least on the electronic front. Not many texts, emails, or comments here on the blog. What was interesting though is we had almost as many cyber-visits here as the day before (over 350), so it looks like number of comments often doesn’t [...]

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A Love Note to Big Daddy

February 25, 2009

Dear Big Daddy, It seems like you are really having a need to be heard. You post on different blogs and sites, sooner or later get IP banned, or your comments are moderated and not published, and it must be very frustrating. Especially because you are the world’s greatest ladies man. When you get frustrated, [...]

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Deep Comfort Game IV with Connection Guy (Entropy)

February 25, 2009

This morning I don’t have a lot of time, so this’ll be quick. Some people asked for more practical tips on how Entropy bonded so deeply with me so quickly. For those of you who don’t read the comments section (which btw I highly recommend reading because I have a lot of astute readers who [...]

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How I got seduced by Connection Guy … Part III his identity revealed

February 24, 2009

So who is Connection Guy anyway? Well, hands down, of everything and everyone I’ve seen in the seduction community so far, this is the guy who can teach not only pickup and attraction but also deep comfort and intimacy. The reason I’ve been saying his identity is obvious is that … I’ve been talking about [...]

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Musings about One-itis (leading into a comment on the value of persistence)

February 22, 2009

Be forewarned, this is a little bit of a rant. Yes, I am a little frustrated right now with one of my girlfriends. Actually, it could be any number of girls that I know, so I’ll write this up as a composite anonymous scenario. Here goes: Girl gets into exclusive but not permanently committed relationship [...]

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Even More Seduction Adventures Coming Soon in Vegas … Mehow’s Conference

February 20, 2009

So I’m sitting on my comfy bed relaxing after a very busy (and way too “in my head”) week, drinking a glass of red Zinfandel. Sitting on my deep red silk textured bedspread. I love the way red makes me feel. Deep ruby red. So I have lots of red: red cashmere sweaters, red leather [...]

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A Course in Miracles on Reframing

February 20, 2009

I have sometimes said that my nickname for A Course in Miracles (ACIM) is “God’s Ultimate Guide to Inner Game.” I’ve also said that ACIM undergirds everything I teach about seduction. Indeed, it’s one of the most seductive books I’ve ever read Anyway, this morning I was reminded of an ACIM quotation that for me [...]

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