March 2009

Project Congruence – Turning Chodes into Men

March 31, 2009

On Sunday, I mentioned my new video project, Project Congruence, for the first time: I’m going to take three guys who have limiting beliefs about women and dating, and help those guys become congruent. I’ve talked before on this blog about the importance of congruence. What is congruence? To me, it means two things: 1. [...]

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Who Wants to Eliminate Their Limiting Beliefs?

March 29, 2009

This weekend, I helped teach yet another bootcamp. After all I’ve seen and learned at these bootcamps, I’ve decided it’s time to create some videos about eliminating limiting beliefs. So … here is a great opportunity for some of my readers. I intend to select three guys who have limiting beliefs about women, dating, and/or [...]

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How a girl keeps a guy around Part II – a more satisfying answer

March 25, 2009

I want to add some more to yesterday’s answers about how to keep a guy around. Most of what I’ve written on this blog so far is advice for guys, or directed at inner game. Although much of it applies equally to girls, I’m still finding ways to articulate my own experience and knowledge in [...]

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How a girl keeps a guy around – response to SMoKeLioN

March 24, 2009

One of my readers, SMoKeLioN, submitted a comment on the Dare to Feel blog entry. He had asked me how I “go out of my way to get a guy.” To which I responded that I don’t “go out of my way to get a guy.” I flirt and connect, and things develop organically. Then [...]

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What I’m happy about on Tuesday morning

March 24, 2009

1. My blog traffic more than doubled overnight. Yes, we hit an all-time high yesterday … thank you all so much for your support, and please subscribe to this blog, follow this blog (buttons in the right-hand sidebar), and tell your friends about it. 2. My mind has been officially trained to reframe. So I’m [...]

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Dare to Feel

March 23, 2009

Today a personally upsetting event happened in my life. I covered pretty much every emotion during the course of the day. From bliss this morning to shock and amazement, doubt and disbelief, gritty determination, and then deep sadness. Wave after wave of deep sadness and mourning. Hope. Despair. A few “what ifs” and “if onlys.” [...]

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First Report from the Epic Seduction Conference

March 22, 2009

I’m back home in San Francisco now from the epic Seduction Conference. It was a really fun weekend … although for me it felt a little more subdued than past trips to Vegas and LA. This is because of things going on in my life (some big announcements are likely in the next few months) [...]

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To Douche or Not to Douche: Love Note to S

March 19, 2009

Here’s a provocative topic for you all: to douche or not to douche? What do I mean by “douching”? Well, for those who are not initiated into seduction community dynamics, “douching” is the practice of criticizing, making fun of, and generally ragging on other people in the community. A little while back, a prominent member [...]

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Epic Seduction Conference This Weekend

March 18, 2009

Yep, I packed my bag. Tomorrow night it’s off to Los Angeles again to hang out with the Masters of Seduction at the Fast Seduction Superconference. Apparently the conference is going to be packed to the rafters, so I can’t wait to see what happens …. a couple guys are officially mad at me, so [...]

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DJ Fuji is Coming to San Francisco Next Week

March 18, 2009

Hey everyone, So for those (especially my San Francisco Bay Area readers) who have become curious about the seduction community, here is a fun opportunity. I met DJ Fuji on the Los Angeles trip, which you can read about HERE. He will be speaking next week at Fort Mason. You can read more about DJ [...]

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