May 2009

We want men to be men – report on Hristiyan’s workshop, part 1

May 31, 2009

I’m back home from Hristiyan’s workshop and about to drift off to a lovely sleep, but I wanted to give you a preview of the next several blog posts, which will be reporting on the workshop. The workshop was PHENOMENAL. Seriously, I have attended many of these events, and I have never seen a group [...]

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Two Weekends of Seduction: Hristiyan and Zan

May 29, 2009

Hey everyone, I’m leaving shortly on a jet plane, don’t know when I’ll be back again … This weekend is Hristiyan’s conference in Los Angeles. Next weekend is Zan’s program in Austin. I’m very excited. I’m also deeply touched by the hospitality that has been extended to me. This weekend I’m staying with one of [...]

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Erika’s First E-Commerce Call

May 26, 2009

Today has been a big day. Something monumental happened this morning, and by sheer coincidence, something big is happening tonight, too. Writing comes easily to me. Always has, since I was about four years old. But technology and e-commerce … not so much! Lol Fortunately, Someone is looking out for me, and I got invited [...]

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Fun fighting: learning to enjoy each other’s pain

May 25, 2009

What I wouldn’t give to have this one wish granted: for every guy I ever date to attend non-violent (compassionate) communication workshops with me. The workshop environment is important because having others there to mediate and hold the space makes a HUGE difference. Why do some guys resist? 1. They see it as a chore. [...]

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10 Reasons to Celebrate Friendship: Why LJBF can be a very good thing

May 25, 2009

Today I’d like to talk about something that can be a touchy issue for both men and women: the concept of “let’s just be friends” or LJBF. I have a really different take on this than most people in the community … which is because, to me, friendship is one of the most glorious things [...]

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"Harem Management" … a Lose/Lose Proposition?

May 24, 2009

The topic of “harem management” is very triggering for me (meaning, it triggers a lot of anger and sadness) … it seems to be a phrase that is seething with disrespect for women. Of course, I don’t shy away from provocative topics on this blog … and I feel compelled to explore this concept to [...]

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Zen Love or Tough Love?

May 22, 2009

Before I get into the substance of today’s post, a few cool things: 1. I received a wonderful e-mail from a reader who is about to graduate as a medical doctor (M.D.) and is studying neuroscience. He shared with me that my Emotional Freedom Technique (“EFT”) postings have inspired him more than I know! This [...]

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The First Amendment

May 21, 2009

“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances.” Lest we forget. The most precious of the Bill of [...]

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Whatever Happens Happens

May 21, 2009

I’ve never been to one of those 12-step programs, though I’d like to check one out sometime because it sounds like they are spiritually very profound. Mainly because the participants are able to get to a place of surrendering control, letting go and letting God. (Yes, ok, insert “Fight Club” joke here if you must.) [...]

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Being Irrepressible … plus Erika takes some lovers?

May 19, 2009

So today, someone said he thinks I am “dramatic.” To which I say … Yes, I am the most dramatic person EVER. (credit Brad P.) If by DRAMATIC, you mean alive … vibrant … surfing the ocean of emotions … expressive … and irrepressible … then yes, I am dramatic. (credit Jlaix) I wouldn’t trade [...]

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