June 2009

Is it Time for a Belief System Overhaul?

June 30, 2009

Here is a letter I received with a request for my advice. This is an example of a guy who doesn’t need superficial help because nothing superficial is going to work for him. It’s not going to matter how many “sets” he is prodded to approach. What’s going on with him is much deeper than [...]

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Erika asks some questions … and would like some answers

June 28, 2009

1. a. Is it normal to feel intense heat in my body for about five minutes PRIOR to receiving messages on my iPhone from a particular person … is this the Universe’s latest version of specific ringer tones for specific callers? 1. b. What does the intense heat mean? 2. Is it normal to receive [...]

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The Power of Your Vibration: More on Non-Verbal Seduction

June 27, 2009

Last night Player Girl (PG for short) and I went out to one of our favorite venues: Americano. Earlier in the week, on Wednesday night, she and I went out to one of our other favorite venues. The radical difference in our experiences during the two evenings is really instructive about the power of vibration [...]

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"Brother, there is no death"

June 25, 2009

Someone is helping me tonight. I can feel it. It feels warm and lovely. This post is dedicated to the woman with stage four breast cancer that Matrix Guy told me about tonight. He was sad, and he wants to contribute. He wants to help. So here are the links I would recommend as starters: [...]

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"I still fucking love you"

June 25, 2009

Later on, I’m going out with Matrix Guy, but in the meantime, a bit of meditation and … A guy instant messaged me tonight for advice. His ex had texted him out of the blue and said she didn’t really feel like their relationship was over. What did he text back? “I still fucking love [...]

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The Erotic Language of Feelings: Can You Hold All of a Woman’s Emotions?

June 24, 2009

“Are you listening?” That may be the most important question any of us can ask ourselves. Shhhh … I’m going to let you in on a little secret that very few men understand. There is a language that everyone around you, whether they are aware of it or not, is speaking all the time … [...]

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A "Quality Problem": Why Rival Bashing Tends to Backfire

June 23, 2009

In the pickup artist (PUA) world, the guys have a phrase: “that’s a ‘quality problem.’” Quality problems are the kind of problems your friends might not want to hear about because you only have them after making so much progress with all this stuff that you have an abundance of men or women in your [...]

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What should I do if my ex wants to come back into my life?

June 21, 2009

I’m probably going to blog more about this fascinating topic later, but for now, we have a really great thread going over on Rori Raye’s blog, so click here to join the fun … My views on this are definitely not the “conventional wisdom” … after all, I wouldn’t want you all to be disappointed [...]

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Premonition? Glimpse of a Sensual Feast

June 21, 2009

All right, I’ve now received my first invitation ever to go to Vegas to “tie the knot.” Lol, very cute I’m still holding out for the man on my doorstep … But in the meantime, I could be enticed to Vegas next weekend. If anyone is interested in Emotional Freedom Technique sessions there (including overcoming [...]

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Sexual Framing and Calibration: please no, this is not the way

June 20, 2009

My girlfriend, Player Girl, and I were approached last night by a guy who attempted to do “sexual framing,” but who ended up doing something more along the lines of what Cameron Teone is always on his soapbox about: scary community guy. More on that in a bit … All right, before we get started [...]

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