June 2009

Do I need to have sex with her to know whether we’ll be sexually compatible?

June 18, 2009

This is one of my pet-peeve issues, one of the biggest bullshit lines that guys say to women to get them in to bed, so I feel compelled to address it. Someone suggested on an earlier thread that, if a guy doesn’t have sex with a girl prior to committing to her, he may run [...]

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Casual Sex or Committed Sex: The Two Paths and Expectation Management

June 18, 2009

Gone Savage posted an excellent article about polarizing your game. It speaks to me at a very deep level. I’m going to publish excerpts (in italics) here with my commentary. ************************************************** You have to polarize your ‘game.’ This is to say, when you go out, know what your intention is. This reminds me of a [...]

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Sad about love :-(

June 18, 2009

I feel a little sad and hopeless about love this morning. Dan_the_Man submitted a great comment last night. He said: Short, sweet, and beautifully stated. I was talking to a friend about how all this stuff just comes from within. The example I gave him is: Suppose you’re watching a movie on on your wall, [...]

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"Why did it end?" … the honest view on break-ups

June 16, 2009

Someone asked me the other day, about one of my relationships … Him: Why did it end? Me: I could tell you the “story” but it isn’t true. What’s true is that I pushed him away with my fear.

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The Seduction Community and Your Wallet: how Emotional Freedom Technique can set you free financially

June 16, 2009

I’m very fired up to write this article. Mainly because I’ve been meaning to write it for a while and because I think it can be a huge contribution to the many guys I’m meeting in this community who have horribly screwed-up and debilitating limiting beliefs about money. Even from guys who have transcended their [...]

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Novel LMR-busting tactic … lol :-)

June 16, 2009

For the uninitiated, “LMR” means “last minute resistance,” i.e., when a woman will become intimate with a man but not have sexual intercourse with him. As an added bonus, you get to see more effective real-life text game: Him: Drop the limitations. You can and will realize every dreamed sexual experience. By contrast, I only [...]

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You need not leave your room: the Man on my Doorstep

June 13, 2009

I have been known to be psychic, many times actually, some of them very striking. The first time was with my kitten’s death, which was so traumatic that I cut myself off from those abilities. It took me a long time to have a good relationship again with my psychic visions. Anyway, I’ve been having [...]

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Vicky Cristina Barcelona – Can Triads Work in Real Life?

June 12, 2009

Ok, everyone, spoiler alert. If you haven’t seen Woody Allen’s fabulous Spanish romance, Vicky Cristina Barcelona (VCB), you may want to go out and see it before reading this post. I must give credit here to Terrance Thames. I was staying with him in Los Angeles when I went down for Hristiyan’s workshop, and he [...]

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Twilight: May the Best Man Win …

June 11, 2009

This evening I am curled up on my sofa drinking a glass of Sauvignon Blanc and writing a little blog entry before Matrix Guy arrives to my apartment. I am feeling very frisky because I just finished watching Twilight for the first time. And now Matrix Guy is going to come over and we’re going [...]

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Commitment Terror …

June 9, 2009

This lifetime is getting to be a very wild ride. How did I find the seduction community? To make a very long story very short, I had a near-death experience, decided I wanted much better relationships (and in particular that I wanted an enduring and deep intimate relationship with a man) and I started reading [...]

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