What’s at stake in this situation is the healing of the masculine and feminine pain-body throughout this entire planet.
A commentator on my article about Mark PostMasculine‘s attempts to “run away” from his pain basically said the same cliched and reactive baloney I have heard from countless men over the past three years, including from Mark PostMasculine: “Just get over it.”
I responded in the comments section of that article (read more here). Today we are going to explore more fully why “just get over it” is some of the most misguided advice on the planet, and why “just get over it” is the fuel behind Mark PostMasculine’s three-year addiction to foreign travel binge.
Some people surely will think this article is “personal” and that I “should” not be talking about this relationship in public. There is nothing “personal” about any of this. For those of you who are tuned in, you know that healing this relationship is the whole banana. Healing this one relationship is going to do more for every man, woman, and child on this planet than you can even imagine. Because we are not healing Mark PostMasculine and Erika Awakening. We are healing a centuries-long battle between the sexes so that we can all finally live in love and peace.
So if you think that I am going to “just get over it” anytime before there is complete justice in this situation (meaning, Mark PostMasculine faces this directly and makes it right with me), you don’t understand me or my healing work at all.
At the beginning of the article that Mark PostMasculine wrote about running away from America, he briefly alluded to the real heart of the matter. Family issues. He straight up compared his dissatisfaction with “America” to the waking up that many of us had that our fucked up families were not really “normal.”
Unfortunately, he only briefly talked about that comparison before going on to make the rest of the article about the perceived flaws of “America.” His article would be a lot more powerful and honest if he had delved into his childhood pain, because I guarantee you that is a lot of what he is running from.
So what happened in YOUR childhood, Mark PostMasculine? And, in particular, tell us about your relationship with your mother, which formed the foundation of your fucked-up relationships with women. There’s no shame in it. My childhood sucked, too. Ask my customers at TAPsmarter. The ones who have all my video products. They will tell you that I have shared DOZENS of anecdotes about the outrageous behavior and belief systems of my parents and other authority figures in my childhood, and the negative consequences of that for my life before I created Holistic Belief Reprogramming.
You see, the difference between me and you, Mark PostMasculine, is not in the amount of suffering we have had. We are both “old souls” and the hurts go way beyond this lifetime. In fact, we have had countless lifetimes together in which we had plenty of suffering also (you know this already). The difference between us is that one of us is facing the pain, and the other one is running away from it. And that running away has to stop. It must stop, for the sake of not only us but the ENTIRE PLANET.
In these Holistic Belief Reprogramming videos, I often CRY. Yep, cry right in front of all my customers. Shame, shame, right? WRONG. I am living what I teach. The emotions only run your life when you refuse to face them. When you face them directly and release the negative emotions, miracles happen. Miracles like my quarter million dollars so far this year and the healing of my body. (If you need a miracle in your life, and want to see me cry in public, click here for a free video.)
Running away just prolongs the pain and suffering for everyone. As I said in the prior article, you can run but you cannot hide from karma. As long as you run, you just keep attracting more painful experiences, and creating more pain that you have to run even faster to avoid.
The answer is not running. The answer is not spending another ten years as an expatriate only to discover that you have become even more fucked up emotionally than you were before.
The answer is FACING THE PAIN AND THE PEOPLE INVOLVED DIRECTLY. This is why making amends with those you have hurt is part of a twelve-step program for ending addictions (like your addiction to running away and foreign travel). Because until you do this, you will never have peace. And there’s only so long you can run from emotions before there will be a COLLAPSE. Don’t end up in a hospital on the brink of death like I did before you wake the fuck up. YOU CAN WAKE UP NOW.
Meanwhile, I will not be just “getting over it.” I will be doing whatever it takes to get this situation healed, so that the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine can once again live together in peace, as they did in the Garden of Eden before the separation from God began.
“In our struggle for freedom, truth is the only weapon we possess.” ~ Dalai Lama
Erika Awakening, High Priestess of Miracles at TAPsmarter