Five reasons I don’t date anymore.
I do not date anymore. Ever.
GASP. Weren’t you a dating coach? Haven’t you met Mr. Right yet? Blah blah blah.
Folks, we have more important things to attend to around here. Like getting miracles for our clients and customers.
I stopped dating for a very good reason. Every date I went on was turning into a free coaching session for HIM. And my time is too valuable for that.
2012 has been a year of miracles for me. I just finished the last of the seven chakras with the release of the 30-Day Crown Chakra Opening Challenge (learn more here).
The two most amazing miracles I will note for right now are these:
1. I made damn close to a quarter million dollars in the first six months of this year (after nearly giving up on my business entirely two years ago, recall this article lol?)
2. My skin had a miraculous healing. My skin was one of the casualties of the horrible conventional lifestyle to which I had succumbed before my near-death experience. My skin problems started right after a horrible relationship break-up, the worst of my life. It has been steadily improving since I discovered EFT tapping in 2007, but there have been many times when I thought that it would NEVER heal completely. But in the past four weeks, the healing has gone to a whole new level. My skin feels so soft now that I am caressing myself all the time, just to feel its silky smoothness. It really was the final aspect of healing for my body (other than the total reversal of aging, we will get to that in a moment).
Last night, I had a stunning moment of clarity, and I don’t think it’s a coincidence that it’s coming at the same time as these other miracles. I finally stepped off my last hamster wheel.
And now I say to the Universe if you ask me “why are you not dating?”
1. I don’t need to. I’m making a quarter million dollars in six months sitting at home in my pajamas. If a quarter million dollars can show up on my doorstep without me making one single sales call, then my partner can do the same. It’s called the law of attraction, and if you know how to use it, you can do anything.
2. I’m not in a rush. Did I mention the Eternal Youth Challenge yet? Lol, you may ridicule me all you want. I turned my business around, I healed my skin. I will achieve eternal youth. Laugh until it happens, because it will. So why do I need to be in a rush? Time waits on me 
3. Oh, you think I’m lonely? Nope, I used to get lonely and do like everyone else, run out and do a bunch of meaningless social activities to try to fill the emptiness. I don’t get lonely anymore. And I rarely go out, either God is with me at all times, and we have an amazing relationship. Problem solved. This is what it means to master inner game. Nothing left to chase because you found it all within yourself. When you master inner game, that is all you need. Full stop.
4. This really can’t be just “any” man. It’s got to be the right man. I’m not interested in a fixer upper or a guy I have to coach. I’m only interested in a man who can inspire me to new heights. That’s going to be a God of a man. Anything less simply won’t do. Next.
5. The Universe is better at deciding this than I am. Day by day, I am getting to be a master of letting go and letting God. Fuck dating advice. Let God handle it.
And that’s it. Of course it’s going to happen. Of course it’s going to be more amazing than I ever dreamed possible. God loves me. God loves you. Of course He’s going to hit the ball out of the park on this one lol
Plus, I am in the process of mastering time. Literally. I mean fuck inner game, mastered that a long time ago. We have bigger ambitions around here now. We are mastering time. Eternal Youth, here we come.
If I can get rid of chronic pain and skin problems that I thought I’d have forever, and take my business from virtually zero to quarter million dollars semi-annual that fast, I can do anything.
Mark my words.
Did I mention that he needs to be a God of a Man? 
Love,
Erika Awakening, High Priestess of Miracles here at TAPsmarter
p.s. Now if you’ll excuse me, I’m going now to make love with My Creator. Who needs sex when you have this? Lol … and oh, we are just getting started
I understand about feeling complete and fulfilled on the inside and being free of the addiction to form but aren’t we human beings? Meaning human + being. The human side (form) is no less important that the being side. The pleasures of form (say for example a one off intimate enounter) are not substitues for being (false idols) but rather are designed to allow you to express your being through them and have a complete experience in your mortal life. In other words, being only in touch with god can ‘fulfill’ you on a being level but it leaves your human experience dull. Or perhaps this comes down what kinds of form you personally feel like manifesting at this time? Money yes, sex/social encounters no and only you can decide what is right for you so I can’t judge on that. Just reminding that we are spiritual beings having a human experience and enjoying the best parts of the human experience in no way needs to pull you away from your relationship to source.
Mark, I think what you’re not realizing is that Erika does not consider herself to be mortal. lol.
She doesn’t say it directly but eternal youth and not dying = immortal.
Seriously though, I think it’s just that right now having a successful business is more important to her. I know myself right now I’m pretty satisfied where I am with pickup, and while I’m never going to stop moving forward with pickup, it’s about time I REALLY start moving forward with business.
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Sorry, but I feel obligated to tell you that you seem more than “a little off-center” based on your comments. I think in reality you compulsively think about men all the time and don’t understand why things aren’t working out because you have such a “great plan” in place for your life. You spent a lot of text bragging about your income and “talents” but how are you as a human being? The problem with so many women these days is that they think its all about them now. Its not. Relationships are about satisfying EACH other. What do you have to offer a man besides immodesty and entitlement? Any man that approaches you socially is a fool.
As long as you’re happy that’s all that matters.
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