So a few truly brilliant commentators on my recent article series about my ex Mark PostMasculine (Mark Manson, a/k/a Entropy PUA) have pointed out the obvious:
“You still want him.”
“You still love him.”
Lol lol lol 
True love, there's no shame in it
Notice how they say it like an accusation, lol? Like it’s the most shameful thing on the planet to LOVE someone …
Do you all understand that THIS is what is wrong with our planet? People so worried about their fucking image that they “act cool” and “pretend” to be above love. Fuck that shit.
Yeah, I want him. I love him. I’ll stand here in front of you with no shame at all and say it straight up.
Because I am not ashamed of loving. You people think love is weakness.
Love is not weakness. Love is the most powerful force in all the Universe, and I’ll take a stand with love and for love any day.
“In honesty, is it not harder for you to say ‘I love’ than ‘I hate?’ You associate love with weakness and hatred with strength, and your own real power seems to you as your real weakness. For you could not control your joyous response to the call of love if you heard it, and the whole world you thought you made would vanish. The Holy Spirit, then, seems to be attacking your fortress, for you would shut out God, and He does not will to be excluded.”
- A Course in Miracles
Many of you have also heard my call for justice as a call for vengeance. I don’t teach vengeance. I only teach God’s justice. God’s justice is amazing in that it doesn’t punish anyone. Nope. God’s justice wipes away every mistake we ever made and puts us back on the throne of EVERYTHING, exactly where we belong.
God’s justice rights every wrong, and gives us everything we ever truly wanted. If you all understood God’s justice, there would be a chorus of thousands on these articles, saying, simply, “Fuck YEAH!”
Until then, I will stand for love and for God’s justice. I will shout love from the mountaintops. I will love, and you had better believe I will trust that love to deliver God’s justice to my doorstep.
Because Love is the most powerful Force in all the Universe
Fuck, YEAH!!!
Fuck, YEAH
Fuck, YEAH!
I most definitely have been ashamed to love. I probably equated love with weakness many times, because I have been in “special relationships”. Thank you, Erika, for giving me the tools to see that I am powerful and can create a new reality.
Yeah this speaks for itself. Where is the related article to the comment you posted recently on facebook?
Hi Simon, thanks for commenting. The post that Giulio Wakeup was commenting on is here:
http://www.spiritualseduction.com/postfeminine-keeps-postmasculine-honest-mark-manson-running-from-america
Erika, you’re an INSPRIATION to us ALL. Mr. Mark Postmasuline thinks he can run away from you, even going to another country to do it, but guess what fuckers: HE CAN’T. You’re a warrior for love and you’re fighting for your heart. We respect that. We love that. We get energized with that. This morning I was in the supermarket (sniffing the oranges to be exact) and I just started laughing to myself as I was overwhelmed with this premonition that Mark is going to fall for you in the next 6 months. I’m currently trying to manifest that because if Mark’s delivered back to your arms then I think we can all have hope in our own lives and loves. You and Mark are soulmates, meant to be, lovers for eternity, and I want to believe in love. There so much wrong with the world but you and Mark, the couple you represent and the love you bring, make the world seem a little more right. It’s like a storybook tale right now and the twists and turns have us all at the edge of our seat. THANK YOU for updating us on this blog about your heart and your love. You give us a glimpse into true beauty and excitement, and we’re right there with you when Mark falls for you again (Well, ahem, that is until you guys close the door to the bedroom lmao!). Again Erika, I’m such a big fan and such an admirerer of you and know Mark is gonna be a-comin’ on home soon. I am going to keep my thoughts aligned with that one goal and Mark will be knocking at your door soon enough. Please take a picture of that moment and post it on this blog. Thanks again Erika!
Amen, a Fan. Thank you so much for your beautiful post
Oh and check out the new article here: Which is better, monogamy or polyamory? How can we get people to agree about this deeply controversial subject? Get ready to set aside your preconceptions and think deeply about whether sexual exclusivity is a good or bad thing … http://postfeminine.com/?p=127
Erika,Mark doesn’t want you.
Why would you even dedicate so many posts to this dude.
I have no prob with Mark,but he’s not worth the attention.
I think if this post was written about you from a guy you you don’t like it would ellicit shame. I liked your idea anout God’s justice though.
This is sorta what I’m getting at
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SZbxTt0d4pI#
Wayne’s World “Psycho Hose Beast”
More real and genuine emotions. Down to earth is more real than woo woo spirituality and calling out to the wisdom of the universe. It’s relate able. Identifiable. You become human again as opposed to a caricature of yourself. The same advice they give guys who want their ex back. First you have to stop wanting them back. Desperation cloaked as spiritual certainty is still desperation. Kubler-Ross might peg this as denial or the bargaining phase. Ahh, sweet limerence
I don’t believe in death, either. So that might be where our perspectives diverge.
When I look at the overall comments here, what is shocking is how low our standards are in general about relationships, and how far everyone will go out of their way to apologize for and rationalize unacceptable behavior.
This situation is a simple matter of integrity and keeping one’s word and following through on representations that were made in order to obtain sex and emotional investment from me.
It’s not any more complicated than that, and the justice that is called for is equally simple. Mark PostMasculine needs to keep the promises he made to me. And that’s that.
Hi Erika,
I love the article. For the most part, I agree with you. Sometimes you have to let somebody go… so that they can move on and be happy. There is something called Karmic Duty, or Foraking. If you loved them, let them go, wish them well. That’s why there is a heaven.
That being said, it’s your journey. If you’re holding on, there must be a reason. Interrupted Love. Trapped Love. Something you need to learn and grow from. Maybe there is something you need to give away to someone else.
Warmest Regards,
Rich